This week marks Week 30 for Laura. Most couples would think “Week 30″ and go “meh” and continue with their regular routines (As regular as routines can be during a pregnancy). For us, week 30 hold special significance because Week 30 is when Rhianna was born, 10 weeks premature. We went to see Matrix Reloaded on Opening Night (May 15th according to Wikipedia), and Laura went into labor and Rhianna was born just after midnight the next day. To this day, it’s still a mystery whether it was simply destiny that she was early, the Matrix scared Laura/Rhianna into an early delivery, or some mystic combination of the “Moon Goddess” and the Lunar Eclipse. We promise we didn’t know her name meant that until after she was born.
So what are we doing differently this time around? Well, as much as we want to go see Fearless, the Protector, and Crank, we aren’t. We can’t prove that The Matrix sent Laura into labor, but we’re not gonna push our luck. Also, just as I spent a few weekends ago painting, I’ve spent recent days assembling Chester Drawers, assembling basinets, and rearranging furniture. We’ve also reclaimed alot of Rhianna’s old baby gear from my mother-in-law’s house where it had been dutifully holding down the carpet in the spare room. Things like her old bouncy seat and swing, and Laura’s rocking chair. So the house is slowly starting to look more “babyfied”.
We’re also being much more selective about names. So far we’re sticking with “Ethan”, which means “Firm, Strong“. We figure he’s got a good chance of making it full-term with a name like that. Also, Laura’s got weekly visits with the doctor and taking something called Magonate which is supposed to prevent preterm labor. Hopefully with all the attention this time, things will go smoother.
Rhianna seems to be taking it well, too. She’s excited about taking care of her baby brother, and talks about it often. Rhianna has started a new school that uses color cards for discipline (Green card means they were good, Red Card means they were bad). She frequently points at Laura’s belly and asks “Baby Brother has a red card?” As much as she seems to be enjoying it now, I hear from alot of parents that things change drastically when the new baby comes home. Hopefully Rhianna will take it well.
Between all that, cops harassing us about parking on our grass in response to the new ridiculous city ordinances, fighting off a persistant possum who keeps sneaking into our yard late at night, my sister coming by for a few days to visit, playing with my MythTV, and general home maintenance… It’s been a busy couple of months…
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